I apologise...

...to those that i've hurt in recent times (and in the past), i am sorry. Whether through my actions, or inactions, through what I've said, or left unsaid, or through any other behaviour, i apologise for this. Although it would have been unintended on my part, that doesn't change what has happened

...to those that i've made to feel uncomfortable through behaviour or suggestion, speech or silence, action or inaction... i am sorry. Again, i wouldn't have intended this, and unless you've spoken to me, i mightn't know how you felt... To any of you out there, whether or not you read this, i apologise.

...to those that i've annoyed beyond a joke, i apologise. If i've hurt you through this, i am sorry. That would never be my intention.

...for this post.


It's not really in my nature to be unkind, but sometimes things might be misinterpreted, or in unknowing bad taste, or just not nice without me realising at the time. If something is meant to be cutting, it will be made VERY clear.

And i do KNOW that this HAS happened, and i've, unknowingly at the time, caused hurt/pain/sad/anger/etc, so this post isn't just a load of malarky.

And to anyone whom i have left out, i apologise.

And if this has bothered you, then please just ignore and forget about it, if that will make you feel any better...


i'm not begging your forgiveness, i just wanted you to know...
tom

p.s.
(and to someone else:
i am sorry for any hurt or pain or sadness or anything that i have caused, directly or indirectly. i want you to be feel happy and nice and laughy! you're not a bad person (regardless of what YOU may think about that...)! i can't help but feel kinda responsible though.)

p.p.s.
this is one of those things that i've tried to go straight from head to computer, without really thinking about it in between, and i haven't gone through it to edit/fix it.It is pure, unadulterated outpour. As a result, there may be some grammatical error, or whatever in there, and i may yet even be misinterpreted in this post itself. If an outpouring can be misinterpreted, that is...
And if you're read this far, thank you for listening...

If you were able read this, it means that i managed to press the 'publish button'

[p.p.p.s. the time stamp thing might be all odd, but this is a re-posting after i temporarily withdrew this post. also, re-added the ONE sentence that i had culled on first writing it.]